7 Romantic Activities You Might Prefer Alone

1. Building a Fire

                                      

This is something men always feel the need to take charge in and goes back to caveman times. However, if you happen to like playing with fire, and like me, have some pyro tendencies, these prehistoric notions just don't fly anymore. You may end up feeling marginalized having to sit back while he does it all for you, as if you're too dainty to build a fire or going near the flames is too dangerous.

Once it's going strong you can watch the beauty of those flames, or close your eyes and enjoy the warmth, or even read a book by the firelight without interruptions. Roast as many marshmallows as you want without feeling self-conscious and don't forget the hot cocoa!

                                                  

2.Taking a Bubble-Bath

                                     

This is something that's definitely not necessarily better with a dude. One, your squished. And two, if you're going to go all-out, he may not really dig the perfumey bath salts, candles, classical music, and bubbles. This might make him feel uncomfortable, or at least will add to his discomfort. He's already uncomfortable trying to protect his family jewels every time you reach over to grab the soap. Also it's important to keep in mind, bubble-baths for men = sex. This is what registers in their head the second you mention sharing one with them and for them makes putting up with all that bubble-bath fluff worth it. Since they'll see this as the prelude most likely they will turn being in the bath into a sexual experience and not something you can simply relax together in. That being said, if you are not in the mood for sex and actually do need to take the load off of a hard day, I suggest taking a bubble-bath solo.

3. Hiring a Masseuse

                             

Couple's massages aren't as romantic as you would think. For instance, you can't ever look at each other. Your heads will be facedown the whole time through a hole in the massage table. Also massages are generally done completely nude with nothing but a sheet to cover you. If you think this sounds like a sexy time together, think again. Do you really want to listen to your man moaning while some other woman is touching him while he's practically naked? And may I mention the massaging of the buttocks is not off-limits. If you're the jealous type, this idea is a definite pass. Massages are a luxury that's better getting on your own. And as a woman, if you prefer a male masseuse you won't be hearing any objections from him.
Massages are most romantic when you're massage trading. This way it's free and you are actually engaging with each other having physical contact. When paying for a professional, it's a waste trying to get a romantic experience out of it too.

                      

4.Watching a Movie

                                              

The perks about watching a movie by yourself is that you get to pick whatever flick you want. He'll appreciate you for not making him sit through any sappy romantic comedies. You can feel free to awe, cry, or yell at the screen in privacy. Any guy watching a romantic comedy would want to talk through it and if it's a movie you're serious about, you'll get tired of shushing him.
If it's foreign films you're into, you'll be able to read those subtitles uninterrupted. And if you're a horror kinda gal, well it can be more thrilling having all the lights off and not having anyone else there. Prove to yourself what a big girl you are.
Or perhaps you can use that Friday night to re-watch your favorite classic. Let's say you've already watched Breakfast at Tiffany's with him, that shouldn't stop you from getting to see it again and again on your own.
Plus, if you have the habit of liking to pause and rewind, well you won't have anyone else to annoy. Trust me, it's nice having the TV at your complete discretion. No, "Honey why are you taking so long to pee?"

                                                                    

5. Going for a Hike

                                    

 If you are in the best of shape, it's nice not having someone to slow you down. And if you're not, you don't have to worry about keeping up or outdoing yourself.
A hike can actually be more gratifying when being left to your own devices to contemplate nature. Without having to talk to anyone you can soak in all the beauty to the fullest.
Going on hikes alone is not only amazing for your health, but it is as well for your mind. It will do you wonders setting aside time once in a while for collecting your thoughts and having some self-reflection.

6.Having Dessert

                                       

The best thing about having dessert alone is that you don't have to share. Self-indulgent bliss. And let's say your go-to dessert is a box of chocolates. Do you know how annoying it is to have him keep getting all the good ones while you keep getting stuck with all the gross jelly-filled? Can't let that happen.

                                                             

7. Salsa Dancing

                                                                


Everyone knows that men lead and women follow. The problem with this is that the woman is limited to only what he knows how to do on the dance floor. The result is a relatively boring night sticking to one partner. Salsa dancing is better single. It's so much fun switching between partners. Each guy has their own style, their own flavor, and arsenal of moves they can do. It's always exciting when one leads you into a move that you've never done before. And plus, being repetitively asked to dance makes you feel sexy and wanted. Even if you have a boyfriend at home, it's refreshing to do a bit of harmless touching of other guys all in the spirit of dance!

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